There is a fine line which differentiates between having a healthy ambition or becoming an ambition addict.
When we grab on too much to our ambition we start drifting away from others and even from ourselves.
An article by Benjamin Shalva in success.com talks about detecting ambition addiction and lists out seven signs and symptoms.
The first sign which tops the list is the way in which the final output of the ambition is imagined. 'As ambition addicts, we imagine detailed fantasies of the wondrous, happy endings toward which we strive—and we picture ourselves enjoying life free from insecurity, vulnerability, heartache and fear,' it states.
Ambition addicts see the present moment as a waiting room for the bright future which they are expecting.
The article states that being in a rush and impatient with others is also a sign and though occasional victory might elevate the mood, ambition addicts soon get back to disappointment.
The most important sign of becoming an ambition addict is jealousy of growth over our competitors.
Ambition addiction can drag people to such an extent that they start talking to people only if they are beneficial. 'We ambition addicts assiduously ascertain who, among our family, friends, community members and colleagues can help us achieve our goals. We prioritize interactions with these individuals over interactions with those we deem peripheral to our progress,' the article states.
Ambition addiction can be very stressful and some times may even lead to heart attack and can also strain a most cherished relationship.
The article also mentions that there is always a cure for any addiction and suggests a few points if someone fits in the category.
The first thing to do is slow down with some breathing space, relax and rejuvenate yourself which may even result in more productivity.
Everyday instead of looking for what to gain, enjoy what you have achieved and have today.
Most of all spend time with individuals and family, and this will strengthen the relationship. Set goals that do not need huge sacrifices from you but still progress in what you want.
