If at all there is something in this world that nobody wants to deny, it definitely has to be success. All the hard work we put in and the knowledge we try to gain are to be successful in life, but what is the actual secret ingredient behind success.
An article in success.com says reveals some interesting information.
'TalentSmart has conducted research with more than a million people and found that ultra-successful people have a lot in common. In particular, 90 per cent of them are skilled at managing their emotions in order to stay focused, calm and productive', the article quotes.
Though some of the strategies needed to achieve success may seem obvious, the real challenge lies in recognising when you need to use them.
The article lists out a certain guidelines which may be helpful to reach one's goal.
The first quality required to be successful is being composed. The habit of adapting according to the situation should be inculcated and understand that anything either good or bad changes with time.
Next on the list is educating oneself constantly. One should always look for opportunities to improve and learn new things. Instead of keeping quite of what people might think it is always better to ask and learn.
Always think logically and slow down before making any decision instead of just relying on gut instinct.
Always deliver your ideas with conviction and speak assertively. Use positive body language with proper eye contact and toning of voice wherever necessary.
The article emphasises on the popular belief that 'first impression always makes the best impression'. 'Research shows that most people decide whether they like you within the first seven seconds of meeting you. Then they spend the rest of the conversation internally justifying their initial reaction. This might sound terrifying, but by knowing this, you can take advantage of it to make huge gains in how people respond to you,' the article points out.
Always be prepared to compete with self. Though the effort may yield only small victories it will definitely have an positive impact on how one calculates things.
The article points out never let fear stop you from doing anything. 'Fear is a choice. Exceptional people know this better than anyone, so they flip fear on its head. Instead of letting fear take over, successful people are addicted to the euphoric feeling of conquering fears,' the article states.
Be graceful as this will make you more approachable by the people. Being honest will enable genuine connection with people in a way that dishonesty can't.
The article mentions the importance of being grateful. 'Instead of basking in the glory of achievement, super-successful people recognize others for the wonderful things they’ve done for them,' it states.
Always be appreciative of what you have or what you have done. If you are someone who is looking to be successful, the points mentioned above are worth giving a shot.
