Happy or sad, everyone needs someone to share it with. That is how important relationships are in human life.
Most people struggle in building up a healthy and trustworthy relationship.
An article in success.com gives a few tips that are helpful in building good relationships.
The first aspect in building a relationship is being kind.
There is no one particular limit to be kind. You can be kind to anyone at anytime and this will be a big boost to anyone who might feel low.
A kind word can make wonders in a person's life and a few moments of attention can turn someone's day around.
People will remember you for a long time for how kind you have been to them, for instance the waiter in the hotel whom you treated well last time, well serve you better this time.
The next on the list is sensitivity, always have a open mind and heart and feel the experience of others.
Try to put in other people's shoe and try to find out how they feel. If you find something wrong, there is no harm in asking about it.
Sometimes people will open up with one question, while some persistence is needed with others.
'People often won’t reveal the problem on the first question. You say, 'How are you today? How are things?' He or she answers, 'Well, everything’s OK.' You can tell by the way they say this that everything is not OK,' the article states.
Instead of talking for an hour and then asking questions, it is done upfront.
But at times if you don't know a person that well, you may need to be more persistent and ask more questions.
Expressing is the best way to build a relationship than trying to impress. People will relate to each other easily if they share something in common.
Whenever you meet someone for the first time try to find what you both share in common which will enable to build a healthy relationship that will last long.
