[11:36 AM, 12/3/2018] HR. Rajan Babu: Today discussion Point: Case Study :
In every organization we would have come across Difficult Employees. Please share your experience on how you have dealt them and various steps you had taken.
[4:30 PM, 12/3/2018] HR Gowrishankar Delphi TVS: Difficult
I remember I have come across few strong passionate employees during 1990 who were part of the union system. It was too difficult to get STD Production from them. They use to be highly disciplined and at work place they are flawless in their approach. U cannot find fault in their work. So shrewd.
It was increasingly difficult to get production from them.
When we interacted we found interesting points to be addressed:
1. How an issue got distorted over their performance over a period.
2. The point of change in his attitude.
3. The immediate superior approach towards his representation in airing his grievance.
4. The period of time it took to address the issue.
5. Influential factors to deprive a genuine hearing of the grievance.
When we addressed the above it took time for us
1. To instil confidence in him.
2. To gain his belief that we can be impartial.
But after some time we found that the so called Difficult Employees are approachable, amenable and are ready for change management and became contributors for higher productivity with minimum scrap.
Transparent approach and gaining confidence among the working class would definitely create assets to an organisation
[10:00 PM, 12/3/2018] HR. Rajan Babu:
Few things that excellent managers do when confronted with a difficult employee – things that keep them from getting bucked up into an endless vortex of ineffectiveness and frustration: Lengthy one but useful in managing difficult employees.
• Often, when an employee is difficult we stop paying attention to what’s actually going on.
• We're irritated, it seems hopeless, and we’ve already decided what we think about the employee - so we just turn our attention to other things, out of a combination of avoidance and self-protection.
• But as a leader we need to get very attentive when someone’s not doing well.
• They know their best shot at improving the situation lies in having the clearest possible understanding of the situation – including knowing the tough employee’s point of view.
• An added bonus: in some cases, simply listening can save the day.
• You may hear about a real problem that’s not the employee’s fault that you can solve; the tough employee may start acting very differently once he or she feels heard; you may discover legitimate issues he or she has that need to be addressed.
Give clear, behavioral feedback.
• We as managers spend months, even years, complaining about poor employees... and not ever giving them actual feedback about what they need to be doing differently.
• Yes, giving tough feedback is one of the most uncomfortable things a manager has to do.
• But as great managers learn to do to it reasonably well, and then they do it.
• This approach does two key things: lowers the other person’s defensiveness, and gives them the specific information they need in order to improve.
• Whatever approach you use, make sure it does these two things.
• Whenever you’re having significant problems with an employee, WRITE DOWN THE KEY POINTS.
• I can’t stress this strongly enough. Dozens of times I’ve had managers tell me that they couldn’t let a difficult employee go because they had no record of his or her bad
• And all too often this lack of documentation arises out of misplaced hopefulness; that they didn’t want to be ‘too negative' about the employee (As if it would all magically go
away if they didn't write it down).
• Good managers know that documentation isn’t negative – it’s prudent.
• Remember, if you're able to solve the problem, you can just breathe a sigh of relief and put your documentation in the back of the drawer.
• If you say you’re not OK with a behavior, don’t sometimes be OK with it.
• Employees look to see what you do more than what you say.
• If, for instance, you tell employees that it’s critical they submit a certain report by a certain time, and then you’re sometimes upset and sometimes not upset when they don't do
it…the less-good employees generally won’t do it.
• Pick your shots - only set standards you’re actually willing to hold to – and then hold to them.
Set consequences if things don’t change.
• If things still aren’t improving at this point, good managers get specific.
• They say some version of, “I still believe you can turn this around. Here’s what turning it around would look like.
• If I don’t see that behavior by x date, here’s what will happen” (e.g., “you’ll be let go,” or “ you’ll be put on warning,” or “you won’t be eligible for a promotion” – some
substantive negative consequence.)
• If problem employees don’t believe their behavior will have any real negative impact on them – why would they change?
Work through the company’s processes.
• Good managers hold out hope for improvement until the point when they actually decide to let the person go.
• AND they make sure they’ve dotted all the I’s and crossed all the T’s that will allow them to fire the person if it comes to that.
• If you’re at this point in your efforts to address the situation, you ought to be having very clear conversations with Seniors/Other department heads so that you know (and are
doing) exactly what you need to do to clear the path to termination, if that turns out to be necessary.
Don’t poison the well.
• All too often, poor managers substitute bad-mouthing the problem employee to all and sundry rather than taking the steps I’ve outlined above.
• No matter how difficult an employee may be, good managers don’t trash- talk to other employees.
• It creates an environment of distrust and back-stabbing, it pollutes others’ perception of the person, and it makes you look weak and unprofessional.
• Just don’t do it.
Manage your self-talk.
• Throughout this process, make sure your self-talk is neither unhelpfully positive nor unhelpfully negative.
• Thinking to yourself, “This guy’s an idiot and will never change,” isn’t useful, nor is thinking, “Everything will turn out fine, he’s great, there’s no problem.
• ” Good managers take a fair witness stance, making sure that what they say to themselves about the situation is as accurate as possible.
• For example, “His behavior is creating real problems for the team. I’m doing what I can to support him to change. If he does, great, and if he doesn’t, I’ll do what I’ve said I’ll
• Firing someone is the hardest thing a manager has to do.
• If it gets to that point, do it right. Don’t make excuses, don’t put it off, don’t make someone else do it. The best managers do the tough things impeccably.
• And if - things turn around, be courageous enough to accept that; sometimes being proved wrong when we think someone’s not salvageable is almost as hard as being proved
If you learn to use these ‘good manager’ approaches when you have a difficult employee, then no matter how things turn out, you’ll end up knowing that you’ve done your best in a tough situation. And that may be the best stress reducer of all.
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