Humans are more like Koi fish, they grow in proportion to their environment. The people that you have and the surrounding that you grow in determines what you become in the future.
So how can you expand your environment and start a healthy relationship.
An article in marcandangel.com lists out a few suggestions.
To start a relationship, one must first realise and understand who they are and this can be done only when people are alone.
Start enjoying your own company instead of being scared of left behind by people and getting in to wrong relationship. This will give an opportunity to choose whom you want to spend time with.
Walking alone will teach you many things in life, when you feel that you are self sufficient then relying on someone becomes an act of inner strength and not weakness.
Whenever there is an opportunity introduce yourself to someone new. Be generous and help people in time of need.
The best investment one can make is to take genuine interest in other people. The more you help people, more people will return the favour to you.
Happiest and successful people always look to help others.
Before starting a conversation with someone ensure that you are in the right place which interests you.
Finding a community of like-minded souls is the most effective component in building positive, lasting relationships.
If all these above steps still fail you, make a list of people you spend time with and the goals that you have set for yourself.
This will give you a picture of if you are hanging out with the right people. Also check if your daily rituals are congruent with your goals.
The ultimate aim is that you need to get your mindset and rituals in order, and spend more time in a positive environment with positive people.
