Being bullied is one problem that everyone has to deal with in day to day basis. However at one point of time, we will want to confront the bully and want to hit them back.
But doing this might have an adverse effect as this will either result in them teasing you more or you will end up being on the wrong side.
Before you lose your patience and get involved in the moment that you so far avoided, think of these points.
* We are all alone in this world, yet there might be a friend or a relative who will come to your rescue. However they may not be always around. We must be ready to take care of ourselves at all cost.
* After you confront your bully, there will be a huge satisfaction of standing for yourself. This will also make your bully think twice before they come near you the next time.
We protect and defend people we love. Why shouldn’t we put ourselves on that list? The best expression of self-love is self-preservation. Why should you be afraid to say no or retort back with disapproval when the time comes.
* These things may seem like a bit difficult in the beginning, however eventually it will be a habit. We will instantly know when we are mistreated, but we do not have to retaliate immediately. When the person crosses their limit, it will come to you with ease naturally.
There isn’t a single thing wrong with sticking up for ourselves. Together, let’s do it and watch our lives click a little bit more securely into that happy place.
Before you lose your patience and get involved in the moment that you so far avoided, think of these points.
* We are all alone in this world, yet there might be a friend or a relative who will come to your rescue. However they may not be always around. We must be ready to take care of ourselves at all cost.
* After you confront your bully, there will be a huge satisfaction of standing for yourself. This will also make your bully think twice before they come near you the next time.
We protect and defend people we love. Why shouldn’t we put ourselves on that list? The best expression of self-love is self-preservation. Why should you be afraid to say no or retort back with disapproval when the time comes.
* These things may seem like a bit difficult in the beginning, however eventually it will be a habit. We will instantly know when we are mistreated, but we do not have to retaliate immediately. When the person crosses their limit, it will come to you with ease naturally.
There isn’t a single thing wrong with sticking up for ourselves. Together, let’s do it and watch our lives click a little bit more securely into that happy place.
Courtesy: www.success.com
